Cade's journey of healing has reached the six-month mark since his bilateral Symes amputation at Boston Children's Hospital, and his progress has been remarkable. Reflecting on the experience, although Cade was undeniably adorable at that age, I wouldn't wish to go back to the moments before the surgery due to the overwhelming anxiety of entrusting your baby to surgeons. Now, being on this side of the surgery, after witnessing his healing and attending numerous appointments, I am immensely grateful for all the lessons these past six months have taught us.
Every morning, following breakfast, we carefully fit Cade with his liners and prosthetics, which he wears throughout the day until bath time after dinner. The only exception is when he naps, during which we remove the hard prosthetics. Thankfully, Cade has shown excellent tolerance for the liners, never experiencing any skin irritation or rashes. Along the way, NextStep Prosthetics has made minor adjustments to enhance his balance, but he continues to wear the same adorable initial pair, which he has grown into beautifully.
While Cade is not yet walking independently, he spends his days cruising along furniture, exploring kitchen cabinets, and tracing the walls for support. He remains on his feet for most of the day, steadily growing stronger. Climbing stairs has become one of his favorite activities, even though it sends his momma into a panic as he fearlessly descends headfirst. Just two weeks ago, we were overjoyed when Cade pushed his wooden radio flyer push toy across the bedroom. This achievement revealed his ability to balance himself and take calculated steps. It was a significant breakthrough for us. As much as I eagerly anticipate my little super hero taking off on his own, I also recognize that, at just 14 months old, he faces more obstacles than a "typical" walking toddler. The typical walking range for toddlers is between 9 and 18 months. So, my sweet kiddo, take all the time you need. We're here to support you every step of the way.
With his newfound sense of balance and ability to cruise along furniture, Cade has developed a fondness for getting into everything. He's determined to conquer the baby gates and venture up the stairs when Momma isn't watching. Opening the cupboards to lend a helping hand (or trip Momma) while she prepares meals has become another favorite pastime. This adventurous spirit has also translated into a newfound love for playgrounds and slides, which he prefers to descend headfirst. Is he all boy? Absolutely. Cade has expanded his vocabulary to include words like "bubbles," "poo poo," "purple," and "ba" (referring to sheep when making animal sounds). While he adores his "da da," he seems to have temporarily forgotten how to say "ma ma" unless he desperately wants something, in which case he employs the whiniest and most annoying voice, repeatedly calling out "maaaa maaaa maaaa."
We are immensely grateful for every step of Cade's journey, as it teaches us invaluable lessons about overcoming obstacles in our own lives and shaping our perspectives in our daily interactions with others. Witnessing Cade thrive fills our hearts with joy and gratitude, and we cherish each day alongside him.
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